Growing up in an addicted family means living by the Don’t Talk rule. It is not all right to talk about the drinking or using in your family. It’s not okay to talk about what you see, hear or feel. But children do see, do hear, and feel fear, sadness, embarrassment, guilt, confusion, anger and loneliness. As adults, we owe them honesty. They deserve to have their reality validated. This book will do that.
Some of the many points covered:
The disease concept
As Claudia tells children, If you live in a family affected by addiction, you are not alone. There are many other children like you living in homes like yours who feel just like you do. It is important that you not be ashamed of your feelings or try to push them out of your mind, but that you talk and share your feelings with someone. Your parents do love you. They just have a hard time letting you know how they really feel because they are sick with the disease of addiction.This workbook gives children the opportunity to share their thoughts and feelings, and to better understand addiction and recovery.